Enjoy Sex Toys

Sorry to hear that. I’ve always felt that if you aren’t having your sexual needs met then the relationship is on its way out. I don’t think you have anything to beat yourself up over, you’ve gone above and beyond what you need to do.

When my hubby and I hit a slump we started exploring sex toys. It sounds like you’re open to that idea but he might not be. I was a little leery at first but then my hubby bought a sex toy game all about discovering your lover. It really helped keep me from being self conscious and we both opened up a lot about what turns us on when it comes to our partner and what toys might work best for us. It was a good first step.

If you love your hubby and he just won’t change there’s no reason why you shouldn’t get some sex toys for your own pleasure. There are plenty of dildos, vibrators, clit suckers, anal beads, ect that you can use to keep yourself satisfied. And who knows? Maybe once the pressure is off your husband or once he sees how well you can take care of yourself without him it’ll jump start his engines.

“More toys?” Brian chuckled as Barb sat on his knee. “I mean, why can’t it ever just be me laying you down and fucking you hard?”

“Well if you think you could, then we wouldn’t need the kinky toys now would we?” the brown-haired girl said bouncing back into her boyfriend’s lap. Brian sat back and chuckled as his lanky girlfriend did the same, then leaned in to kiss him hard on the mouth.

“Really Bri, you know I think the sex is great,” Barb said after coming up for air. She wiggled her tight ass into his crotch and continued: “You have the sweetest cock, I’ve told you this many times and you really make me come…a lot…all the time. I just like to play a little.”

“Yeah, I guess, but I mean…”

“Trust me, I bought a good sex toy this time.”

“I’m startin to think you know a little too much about this stuff,” Brian countered as his Barb turned to nuzzle his neck.

“I mean, I was down for the nipple clamps and that little clit whip,” he continued as the girl in his lap wiggled, licked at his ear, put her arms around him. “That shit was ok, but…

“Yeah, sex toys used on _me_,” Barb laughed, leaning back off her man. “That’s the point, this…” and with this the lanky girl lean back even further and reached back to the kitchen table top to plucked the vibrating egg and its attached control off the table. “…will really make both of us feel good.”

“Shit, Barb the fucking thing’s electric!” Brian laughed.

“Battery honey,” she said then stood and turned to him fully. “Don’t worry I know how to use it.”

“Shit Barb.”

“Really what are you afraid of…” she said, holding the egg and its speed controller in one hand. Pulling the thin chord between the two, Barb looked down at her boyfriend.

“Afraid of a little vibration down your pants?” she said, then before Brian could stop her Barb pulled the waist band of his jeans forward, and pushed the egg down the front of her boy friend’s pants.

“Barb, fuck!” Brian said, standing with a shot. Barb stepped right up to him, trying not to make the chord too taut. She flicked the switch and the egg began to vibrate as Brian stood frozen.

“Now tell me, just tell me that doesn’t feel amazing.”

Brain was silent. All that could be heard in the sun-lit kitchen was the little buzzing coming from the vibrating egg stuck between Brian’s tight briefs and jeans. Though she hadn’t had enough time to place the bullet-like vibe in the best spot, Barb knew she had got it down far enough where the vibration of the toy must be having an adequate result across Brian’s cock and balls. Not that she would ever tell Brian but she was well reversed in all this stuff, she knew all too well how to use sex toys. The thirty-year old girl had a rich sexual history she’d probably never admit to her handsome, yet slightly innocent boyfriend.

Brian seemed to be at a loss for words.

“I can give it a little more…” Barb said placing her free hand on Brian’s chest. She regulated the knob on the vibrator’s controller just a smidgen faster and Brian looked hard at her.

“Good?”

“Weird,” he finally managed. “But good, yeah.”

“See, you got to trust me on the sex toys,” Barb said. “I only want you to feel good baby.”

“Maa, man,” Brian shuttered as Barb moved the dial even further forward. She knew it would take really nothing at all to just give Brian the full speed, but this was his first time out, why bother? She was planning to use this little egg vibrator a lot on Brain and on herself in the ensuing weeks; they really were just getting started with this toy.

“Did I get it down there far enough?” she said, looking over at where the chord snaked down the front of Brian’s jeans.

“Yeah…yeah,” he said.

Brian was standing fully now, seemingly easing into the shock and sensation. He reached over and kissed Barb and as their lips met he pressed her into him.

She could feel a slight vibration through his pants.

“Why…why can’t you just be a normal girlfriend?” Brian said when they released.

“I’d bore you to tears if I was,” Barb said reaching for Brian’s zipper with her free hand, her other still on the vibrator’s control.

I rode her asshole HARD last night. I threatened her with it for weeks, and she laughingly played into it, teasing me with pictures from her cell phone. She would sneak off into a public bathroom stall and take out her little pocket vibe, masturbating with one hand and snapping photos with the other. One night while she was traveling I recognized the unmistakable logo of a Starbucks in the periphery of the image she sent. The image coincidentally had her bent over in front of the bathroom mirror with beads in her ass and a thick dildo obviously railing at her pussy.

She got home from her trip and I immediately snatched her up to my place where I had all the necessary electric sex toys and some old school DIY sex toys laid out like a surgeon’s tools. I played with her tits, and her perpetually wet pussy for a bit to prime her, then with a little spit and smile I slid my finger into her asshole and worked it for a bit until I felt she was loose enough to take me. I stood her up and bent her over. Stripped her skirt without warning and squeezed a generous helping of lube on her little star. I entered slowly, as a gentleman should, but once I felt the tension go away I FUCKED that tiny asshole HARD until I saw the glint of a tear roll down her cheek. That’s when I poured my load inside her ass and let out a roar. I pulled out and watched my cum seep from her gaping hole, then walked to the bathroom to clean myself up. I tossed her a towel, again, as a gentleman should. I shut the light and closed the door so she could recoop in private. And I noticed a bit of blood dripping down from her rectum between her spread legs, and thought to myself, “That’ll teach her to tease ME.”

Most men love receiving blow-jobs, but many partners get tired of giving them. Its just human nature- we’d much rather receive than give. If you want to enhance the quality of the blow-jobs you give, and make it more enjoyable for the giver, there are lots of adult toys that you can use to make your blow-jobs blow his mind.

To give a great blow-job, start with Deep Throat Desensitizer spray. The blower simply sprays this strawberry-flavored benzocaine solution into the back of the throat about ten minutes before oral play starts. The Deep Throat Desensitizer spray will gently numb the back of the throat and uvula, allowing you to put the whole cock deep inside your mouth and throat. Don’t let him know you’ve used it, and you’ll deep throat your way to blow-job stardom.

If flavor is a factor, try using edible massage oils on the cock. Start by rubbing the oil all over the hard dick with your fingers, and then use your tongue to work it all around. He’ll love the extra wetness, and you’ll love the flavor. Try using warming oil, like Hot & Sexy Lotion in Intense Raspberry to really heat things up. If you don’t know what flavors you like, try an assortment pack like the Wet Adventure Set. Blow-job drops also add a nice hint of flavor and tingle the cock. Simply stick one in your mouth and go on down. The flavors will keep you happy, and the minty tingle will spice up the night.

Romantic weekends away are a great way to reconnect with your partner and spice up your sex life. Don’t just book any hotel and toss random clothes in a bag– plan your weekend sex-away, and the memories will last a lifetime.

Start planning your weekend sex-away by researching places to stay. For a weekend sex-away, you probably don’t want to crash on a friend’s fold-out couch (unless of course the friend is out of town). Bed and Breakfasts offer cozy, home-like comforts which can add to a sense of safety and wellbeing that will ultimately allow for more creative sex play. Research a Bed and Breakfast, though for a sex-away, you probably want to stick to small guest houses instead of rooms inside a larger Bed and Breakfast house; the fewer neighbors you have, the louder you can be without disturbing others. Large hotels often have sound-dampeners so noise isn’t as much of a problem. When making reservations, ask for the most private room they have. The hotel receptionist will know what you mean.

So you’ve found the perfect place and packed the perfect clothes. Whatever you do, don’t forget to pack an assortment of sex toys. You don’t want to be in the throes of a wild night and find that you have left all the adult toys at home. For easy packing, consider items like the Wild Sex Ring, Glow in the Dark (it’s a great cock ring that adds to both partners’ pleasure). The Nookii Ooh La La Rabbit is the perfect size for packing and comes with a nifty, discreet tube case. Nookii also offers a Toys for Boys kit – get both kits and you’re ready for a weekend sex-away trip! If you are flying, pack batteries separately and put your adult toys in your checked luggage for easy security clearance.