Enjoy Sex Toys

Ever since I was a little girl, I was a fan of cute things. If it was pink, fuzzy, or covered with hearts, flowers, of magic princesses, I definitely was bugging my mom for whatever it was. Could it me that I have just transferred my girly tastes from childhood to the world of adult toys that I lose so much now? LOL, I feel kind of funny even equating the two ideas!

Ever since I first heard of a rabbit vibrator I knew it would be for me. I like the ones that have beads that churn around in the middle, but what turns me on the most is how the rabbit ears tickle and flick.
Clitoral stimulation is really what does it for me. I have two rabbits now- one is a little bit big, but one is slimmer since I don’t really need anything too giant inside me most of the time. They are so cute! I think that’s what appeals to me most. Even if it’s for sex now that I’m all grown up, I still buy the cute little bunny rabbit thing.

Which is better depends totally on the person. Some women can only get off if their clit is stimulated; others love the feeling of being penetrated. If your girlfriend usually comes during oral sex and not vaginal sex I’d say get her a pair of vibrating panties or something like a clit pump or the soft touch clit licker. If she seems to come with both a rabbit vibrator is probably right up her ally. The biggest benefit of the rabbit style vibrator is that you get the clit stimulation at the same time you get penetration. A standard vibrator is good just for penetration and stimulating the g-spot.

I have a rabbit style vibrator and swear by it, mine is the Gyrating Beaded Dolphin. It has every option you can think of and then some. It has dual speeds for the shaft and the clit stimulator, various different pulsating rhythms, and to top it all off the control pad glows in the dark so there’s none of that fumbling around right when you need to change the speed or something.

OMG, I saw something totally brutal last night. I love the sex parties my friends throw- we are totally sex positive and aren’t shy with each other in the least. I think it bonds our community together to make love together. But this one was different.

It was never like this before, but there were so many people into ass play there. At least four guys had their girlfriends or a new friend strap on a dildo and do them. Watching a woman strap on a nice dong and do a guy in the ass is hot enough, but a few of these people were pros! One guy insisted on a woman using a seriously giant dildo on him. It was pretty scary to think about even taking it vaginally. It was the first time she ever did use a strap-on on a guy, so she was nervous already, before the issue of the giant thing between her legs! Anyway, it looks like they both enjoyed it.
There was also a serious Wonder Woman who also loved it that way. I was busy getting fucked too, but we took a little break & we got an eyeful of what was happening. She kept getting bigger & bigger things up there – a couple of different dildos, a big anal vibrator, her boyfriend’s cock, and finally a fist
more than once!! This was extreme, people.

Well, you know what they say, different strokes for different folks. Seriously though, I only get off with clitoral stimulation, not penetration, so smaller sex toys are much better for me. I’ve certainly made do with large sized vibrators but after much trial and error I’ve really found that I have better control over a small bullet style vibrator or clit vibrator. As they’ve also been known to say: it’s not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean. Ha ha.

I think the important thing to keep in mind when it comes to buying any sex toy is to know your own body. You can spend a lot of time and money trying out sex toys that aren’t right for you if you don’t know what you personally like. Comparing your tastes, and toys, to anyone else’s is pointless. There is no ‘right’ size or kind of sex toy, only what is right for you personally. There is really no such thing as too big, or too small, just what’s right for you.

Sorry to hear that. I’ve always felt that if you aren’t having your sexual needs met then the relationship is on its way out. I don’t think you have anything to beat yourself up over, you’ve gone above and beyond what you need to do.

When my hubby and I hit a slump we started exploring sex toys. It sounds like you’re open to that idea but he might not be. I was a little leery at first but then my hubby bought a sex toy game all about discovering your lover. It really helped keep me from being self conscious and we both opened up a lot about what turns us on when it comes to our partner and what toys might work best for us. It was a good first step.

If you love your hubby and he just won’t change there’s no reason why you shouldn’t get some sex toys for your own pleasure. There are plenty of dildos, vibrators, clit suckers, anal beads, ect that you can use to keep yourself satisfied. And who knows? Maybe once the pressure is off your husband or once he sees how well you can take care of yourself without him it’ll jump start his engines.

One of my best sex toys is my remote three speed sapphire thong. It is a patent leather thong, that makes me feel very kinky and naughty no matter what clothes I’m wearing on the outside, and it has a built in bullet style vibrator with three speeds. My boyfriend has a problem where when he drinks he can’t function sexually later on, so this solves the problem nicely for both of us. I always wear this sex toy to parties and hand him the remote. We both love how naughty it is, and no one is any wiser. The panties really are quiet enough that we use them I front of others and they haven’t caught us yet.

People usually blame my blush on the drink I’m holding in my hand, and my boyfriend doesn’t have to feel bad that he’s disappointing me later on, since he’s been giving me orgasms all night. More than once we’ve ended up having to meet for a little rendezvous mid-party because we both can’t keep our hands off of each other.

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Bachelorette parties should be just as much fun for guests as for the guest of honor. For my bachelorette party, I told my friends that I didn’t want a male stripper because all the ones I’d ever known were gay and I couldn’t get into the fantasy. If I think a guy is gay, I can’t appreciate their physical attributes because I’m too damn busy hitting them up for fashion and style advice. So, I requested no male stripper.

I secretly thought that they had maybe gotten me a female stripper– I overheard some of my friends the day before the party and I could tell that they were up to something and that something involved a stripper. I figured well hell, yeah. At least it won’t be too obnoxious if I end up asking a girl stripper where she gets her hair done, plus it will be fun and funny and maybe she can teach me some tricks to use on my husband during the honeymoon. Also, if she’s a lesbian, that’s just plain hot. Bring on the lady stripper!

So the night of my bachelorette party rolls around, and I know my friends are up to something. They put a blindfold on me and hand me a jar of glitter, and tell me to get ready. I start getting excited, they start some music and in walks AN OLD FRIEND. As he begins to striptease for me, I begin to scream, “Get off me, I can’t see you naked!” My girlfriends’ response was “Well, you know he’s not gay!” While I ran away and commenced to drink heavily in the corner, my girlfriends took advantage of the sexiest stripper we’d ever seen– proof that the bachelorette party is just as much for the bridesmaids as it is for the bride.

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I was thinking the other day, which can bring no good to anyone, I know. But I was watching The Food Network’s Alton Brown on “Good Eats” and I realized that he has a special disdain in the kitchen for what he calls “Mono-taskers”, like electric Apple peelers, or well any big bulky kitchen item that is only designed to serve one purpose and otherwise just takes up space. It got me thinking that I have got a LOT of sex toys, some are quite respectable multi-taskers, for instance my anal vibe, also double as a clit vibe. And let’s face it; dildos can be stuck in just about whichever hole you like. But things like my butterfly stimulator or my ball gag, well they are only good for the one thing, and they take up a relatively significant amount of space in my bedside table. Even my anal beads could, if need be, double as a necklace…well a bracelet, if pressed to find a second purpose, but those mono-taskers, are beginning to make me feel like an inefficient sex toy user.