Enjoy Sex Toys

One of my best sex toys is my remote three speed sapphire thong. It is a patent leather thong, that makes me feel very kinky and naughty no matter what clothes I’m wearing on the outside, and it has a built in bullet style vibrator with three speeds. My boyfriend has a problem where when he drinks he can’t function sexually later on, so this solves the problem nicely for both of us. I always wear this sex toy to parties and hand him the remote. We both love how naughty it is, and no one is any wiser. The panties really are quiet enough that we use them I front of others and they haven’t caught us yet.
People usually blame my blush on the drink I’m holding in my hand, and my boyfriend doesn’t have to feel bad that he’s disappointing me later on, since he’s been giving me orgasms all night. More than once we’ve ended up having to meet for a little rendezvous mid-party because we both can’t keep our hands off of each other.

If you and your wife are just getting into anal sex I really recommend using a few toys first. It helps stretch things out a little down there and helps you both learn what her limits are before anyone gets hurt. I started off with anal beads because they are graduated, making it very easy to ease into the larger sizes. They make a lot of great anal dildos and anal vibrators for beginners as well.

And, of course, lube, lube, lube, lube. You can never use too much. You can never reapply too often. If you are using dildos and vibrators you have to make sure you use a lubricant that works with whatever material your toy is made out of. If you are using a cyberskin dildo you can’t use a silicone based lube, for example. Water-based lubes are pretty safe for any toy, but they can dry out so you really need to use a lot, often. Boy Butter makes an anal lube that is water based but lasts a lot longer then usual water based lubes. It’s a little bit of a creamier formula.

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“This is serious,” Benny said, looking over at Gayle. The big blonde was on her back, rubbing her pooint pale tits in that slow counter clockwise motion she always employed when she was as turned-on as she was right then. “You sure you want to go here?”

“As long as you agree, if I take it, then you have to.”

“Gayle, you know you can’t challenge me,” Benny said, scooted up further on the bed and “fdlumped” his rigid cock into his girlfriend’s side. “You know you how hard toys make me.”

“Yeah, I know,” Gayle said, looking down her wide body at her open legs. “Makes me so wet.”

“So,” Benny said, leaning up on one arm, scooting even further up the side of his girlfriend. “We’re gonna try this, right?’

“Yeah,” Gayle cooed. “You got it nice and heated, right?”

“Yeah, it’s not hot, but the glass is definitely warm.”

“Then go ahead, I’m ready for it,” Gayle said, lean up and kissed Benny, then turned over onto her stomach. As always Benny looked down, marveling at the naked perfect round ass below him. He tickled Gayle’s white cheeks and she pushed into the bed.

“Give me a sec to get it lubed,” he said, rolled to his side and plucked the sex toy, called the ‘Don Wand Melon Crank’ from his bedside table.

Benny sat up as Gayle smushed her face into the pillow and regarded him from her one cheek. Squeezing a generous amount of lube down the glass cock, Benny’s own cock grew even harder as he watched Gayle watch him, obviously anticipating taking the glass toy up her ass.

“This is kinda thick,” Benny said, playing the tip of the glass dong through his now wet fist. “It’s gonna fill you big.”

“Oh God Benny, God,” Gayle moaned and he placed the lubed clear phallus on the bed between them, dripped more lube on his fingers and then reached down to spread his girlfriend’s cheeks.

“Ah…coo…cool,” she moaned as Benny plyed his two wet fingers up her pruned flesh and quickly inserted into her anus.

“Tight,” Benny said as he circled, poked and generally lubed the clutching hole. Retracting his fingers, he squirted more lube on them and then repeated the process as Gayle bucked her pelvis into the bed.

“I mean, putting it in you’s gonna be good,” he said, circling his fingers one last time, then finally removing his hand. “But once I start cranking this thing.”

Gayle’s eye went even wider as Benny picked the dildo up by its crank end, scooted down the bed even more and came to kneel between her open legs.

“Scoot up, get your ass nice and high,” Benny said and Gayle moved up slightly on her knees, spreading her legs even further.

“Mmm, a little more” Benny coaxed, holding Gayle’s right cheek, spreading it from her left and maneuvering the glass dildo at her anus.

“Fffffuck, fuck,” Gayle stuttered and shuttered, burying her face into the pillow as Benny got the tip of the cold toy right at her open wet hole.

“You ready for this baby?” he said. “Really?”

“Jrusm asmr you tarke for mm rater,” Gayle replied, the pillow stuffed in her mouth…though Benny knew what she meant.

Gayle was nothing if she wasn’t fair in their sexual experiences. Resolutely kinky as they both were, there was nothing Gayle ever did she didn’t want Benny to experience…if physicality and toys would allow for the possibility. Little did she know that Benny wanted this toy up his own ass, the crank sticking out for Gayle to use, maybe as much, or more so, then he wanted to get it up Gayle’s ass and begin cranking…and Benny wanted to get the sex toy up Gayle’s ass and begin cranking very very much!

“In we go,” Benny said, and pushed the mushroom-like tip forward and into the wet anus before him. Gayle arched her back on the initial entrance of the dildo but settled as Benny eased more of the stubby warm glass shaft of the toy up her.

“Don’t even need to crank it,” he said, working enough of the dildo in that it plugged Gayle sufficiently. For her part, the pretty blonde’s head was to one side, her legs were shaking and she was breathing deeply.

“But for maximum effect…” Benny said, grabbed the crank of the toy and began slowly, ever so slowly to turn it.

He could almost feel the thing turning in “his” ass.

The thing I was thinking then, despite Bill’s cock deep in my pussy and feeling his thighs slamming up into mine, was how I used to like to ride the train with my mom. Now, I knew Bill might have been a bit put-off knowing I was daydreaming, especially seeing as he really was filling me pretty good and the sound of his balls slapping into my wide ass was loud, but I really couldn’t help that memory relapse at that particular moment. As he held that strap under my pelvis, as I more or less “swung” there in that wide belt Bill had fitted under me, I was brought back to those times on the train with my mom when she’d lift me just before the doors ‘shusshed” to a close, let me hang my little hand through an overhead strap, pretending to dangle just like those riders I’d see who’d stand during the ride.

“Urff,” Bill said and that spirited thrust fortunately brought me back to the moment… thinking of my mom and I riding the train was probably not the best thing seeing as my boyfriend was really building up steam now ramming my pussy from behind.

“That…that really is kinda deep,” I said, not lying. Not that Bill hadn’t fucked me this way a thousand or so times in our three years together, still with that soft black strap under me he could (and was) pulling me back into him with every thrust forward.

We were really making quite the delicious slapping sound.

“I got to buy us more stuff,” Bill grunted over my back and I spread my legs more, let my body go down further into the harness below me and let him take my weight deeper.

“Sure sweetie, what…whatever you want,” I said and once again looked over my high shoulder to my man.

I wasn’t a girl used to sex toys, in fact I can be downright provincial if truth be told. But Bill had wanted to try some stuff through our years together so I had gone along with mostly anything. We had swung with another couple, had sex in public places for about three months (until it got to cold out to continue) and now we’re trying this doggie-style sex strap. Bill seemed to know how to use sex toys, or at least where to buy them and that kinda turned me on, him having had a past like that (or having read enough magazines to know the ’sex toy score’) either way, if my handsome guy wanted to get into more toys with me, I was down. At thirty-six a woman knows her body pretty well, kinky toys or no kinky toys I knew how to get off and to tell the truth Bill’s cock was pretty sweet and I liked how much he wanted me more or less 24/7.

Bring on the little gadgets, dildos, whips, straps, any sex toy you wanted, I thought.

“I like thrusting in…” Bill said, slapped me forward, his cock touched something deep, I gulped, then he pulled back on the straps and I was reared up back into him even deeper. “…then pulling you back.”

“I…I…” I said trying to catch my breath. I had to agree, both that combination of fucking my pussy then pulling me back on his hard cock worked for me to.

“Thrust,” Bill said and did it.

“Pull back,” he added and pulled me back to him to complete the process.

Fuck, he definitely had the rhythm down and as I looked again back at him I saw how the muscles of his forearms chorded as he held me. Again my mind wandered but this time not from my lanky blonde-haired boyfriend. His popping muscles, the thrusting and pulling, the sweet heat I felt from Bill’s body so close to mine, and his cock in me like I was being speared, it all began to coalesce in my head.

“B…i…ll,” I shuttered as I heard and felt him starting to clutch and get close.

“Bill,” I whimpered and again he thrust up into me, pulled back but this time when he held on he actually shook me and began to come I knew.

I swung there and began to come myself; really it never takes Bill or I long when we get into having sex, with a toy, doggie strap under me, us hanging from the ceiling, whatever.

Fuck this guy was a keeper!

“KIM!” Bill growled and planted me and shot deep.

“Yes,” I agreed as I shuttered.

I wasn’t thinking of my mom or a train then, that’s for sure.

When people are first time swingers or still a little new to the scene, there are details of the culture that are easy to miss. Here is a very short list of things that will be helpful to your understanding swinging etiquette as you begin your amorous adventures.

1) Ask before you touch.
You may be at an orgy, but it is not a free-for-all! Be sure that you have explicit permission from both the person you want to get it on with and that person’s primary partner(s) before proceeding.

2) Safety.
This should go without saying. Don’t dive into intercourse without a condom, period. Parties vary in terms of the level of safer sex required. If oral sex without a barrier is ok and you are comfortable with that, then proceed. If it is prohibited by the hosts, follow the house rules.

3) Mouthwash!
Here’s one people easily forget. You may have agreed to eat somebody’s pussy. The next person you want to kiss may not have agreed to that. It’s polite of you to wash your hands, use mouthwash, etc. before moving onto the next hot scene.

4) Pay attention to the vibe.
Is this a party like a hardcore porn flick where intense language fantasy and kinky props are all part of the game? Is this a New Age Tantric massage party where people are seeking transcendence through erotic experience? It may not be so nice to call someone a fuckin’ cum slut baby doll whore while she’s hoping to send her orgasm to the universe with a healing intention. Pay attention.

Let me tell you – over the years I have put together a great collection of ladies’ shoes. I am not much into cross dressing with all the other garments, but viva la feet! I find foot worship videos totally hot, and I like to watch them when I put on my shoes.

The other night was what I call a “best of” night. I put on a favorite foot worship video – a vintage one I’ve had since the 80’s—and I decided upon four pairs of shoes that have always turned me on the most. I took out the shiny, brown business woman pumps, the silver glitter summer sandals, the white wedding shoes, and the fuck-me red spikes. I got so hot just taking them out of the closet. After that, I stripped naked, tried each pair on in turn, and just rolled around in bed enjoying each pair fully.

Eventually, I lined them all up on the desk and blew a huge load over them, just as the hot chick in my video had one guy sucking her tits and another licking her beautiful thigh high vinyl boots. Wow, when I am surrounded by my favorite shoes, prancing in my cross dressing feet, watching a guy suck and lick a ladies’ foot or shoe on the screen, I am overwhelmed. It is so amazing, I can’t hold back.

Q: Do people with a latex fetish like wearing condoms more than the rest of us?

A: That is more of a good question than you may give yourself credit for. In truth, there is literally a fetish for everything. You name it, somebody is somewhere getting off on it.

There are plenty of ways that people get their latex on. There are all kinds of latex outfits to be found – from bras and crotchless panties or easy-access panties/briefs to full body skin-tight suits. People who are turned on by latex might have a favorite article of clothing, a favorite color, or some other preference that drives their latex jones. It can be the feel of the material, the look, or the smell, on themselves or another that does the trick. Some use liquid latex body paints – the skin MUST have ample breathing room if you do this. PLEASE seek reputable health advice before you go there.

Re: condom use, it may not show up as a fetish as often as other latex use, but some men particularly enjoy the feeling of using a condom gifted to them by a special person. On the radar of webcam and video exhibitionists is masturbation into a condom sent by an online “fan.”

As I said, turn-ons are infinite, and creative excitement over latex is part of the mix. The good thing about current times is that the use of condoms for safer sex is now part of the culture. Young people who have grown up in the age of HIV have learned to protect themselves automatically, so the stigma against condoms, in general, is waning.

If my co-workers only knew me a little better… they’d know why I haven’t been sitting down much today. All I can think about is last night’s figging, so I am blowing off a minute more of work to blog about it.

I was severely disciplined last night. He likes to keep me in line. This time, he remained fully dressed until the very end. I was nude and about to serve drinks when he led me to the living room. He handcuffed me to the legs of a chair. It was awkward but comfortable enough. My pretty, round ass was high up in the air- and was his for the taking.

He rubbed each ass cheek gently and alternately spanked – harder and harder until I could feel the warm redness start. The leather-covered paddle was next. The strikes were heavier. Each of my startled screams brought on another deep swat. I didn’t expect the slim, carved ginger root in my asshole, but as soon as I felt it, I craved its warmth.

I know it’s supposed to be “punishment,” but I love figging. It gets warmer and warmer inside my rectum. It is uncomfortable and I do squirm. It just never gets to be overbearing—it keeps me on a kind of subspace edge that I love. The spanking continued. I don’t know how long it went on, along with the figging. All I know is that I love & trust my Dom. I hurt with that _good_ pain today, the kind that goes with nice, kinky memories.

So my boyfriend and I had a sort of romantic evening in bed planned and I decided to surprise him with a blow job, thinking I’d give him his and get mine after. The only problem is, I like the way he tastes, but I just cannot swallow his cum. That stuff is way too salty and makes me kind of gag, which isn’t a pretty thing to do. So I couldn’t figure out how I was going to give him this great blow job and not go all gagging at the end.

But I figured it out and wanted to share. So there we are going at it. I’m all open-legged on top of him and he’s just lying back, relaxing, enjoying his pleasure. I’m keeping myself pleasured at the same time with my favorite vibrator. I’m licking his dick and fucking myself with my rabbit vibe, and having a great time, but I’m worried that he’s getting close to cumming and I don’t want to taste it. Then I remembered– we got some flavored condoms a few weeks ago at an adult toy shop! So, he’s close but not so close that I’m breaking his groove, and I have him put the condom on. Well, he knew what was coming then, and when he came, I just kept right on licking and sucking like I didn’t even know he was done. He loved it! So, for everyone out there who likes to suck cock but doesn’t like to swallow cum, get yourselves some flavored condoms. You’ll be licking chocolate while he’s making cream filling!

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