Enjoy Sex Toys

If so, Im sorry to hear that. I’ve always felt that if you aren’t having your sexual needs met then the relationship is on its way out. I don’t think you have anything to beat yourself up over, you’ve gone above and beyond what you need to do.

When my hubby and I hit a slump we started exploring sex toys. It sounds like you’re open to that idea but he might not be. I was a little leery at first but then my hubby bought a sex toy game all about discovering your lover. It really helped keep me from being self conscious and we both opened up a lot about what turns us on when it comes to our partner and what toys might work best for us. It was a good first step.

If you love your hubby and he just won’t change there’s no reason why you shouldn’t get some sex toys for your own pleasure. There are plenty of dildos, vibrators, clit suckers, anal beads, ect that you can use to keep yourself satisfied. And who knows? Maybe once the pressure is off your husband or once he sees how well you can take care of yourself without him it’ll jump start his engines.

Which is better depends totally on the person. Some women can only get off if their clit is stimulated; others love the feeling of being penetrated. If your girlfriend usually comes during oral sex and not vaginal sex I’d say get her a pair of vibrating panties or something like a clit pump or the soft touch clit licker. If she seems to come with both a rabbit vibrator is probably right up her ally. The biggest benefit of the rabbit style vibrator is that you get the clit stimulation at the same time you get penetration. A standard vibrator is good just for penetration and stimulating the g-spot.

I have a rabbit style vibrator and swear by it, mine is the Gyrating Beaded Dolphin. It has every option you can think of and then some. It has dual speeds for the shaft and the clit stimulator, various different pulsating rhythms, and to top it all off the control pad glows in the dark so there’s none of that fumbling around right when you need to change the speed or something.

There has been a lot of media coverage about phthalates in children’s toys, water bottles, plastic cutlery, and other items made of plastic. Unfortunately, few media outlets have told us whether or not to be worried about pthtalates in adult sex toys.

In order to decide for yourself, it is first important to understand what phthalates are. Phthalates are chemicals used to soften hard plastics so that they may be bent into shape during manufacturing. Some manufacturers use pthtalates to turn hard plastics into soft, pliable products, like dildos or baby teethers. The problem with pthtalates is that they have recently been found to leach chemicals that act like female hormones when they are absorbed by the body.

So far, the use of pthtalates has been restricted for use in children’s toys in the European Union for nearly a decade. The state of California has been a leader in regulating pthtalates in children’s items in the United States. But children’s items have remained the main focus. Pthtalate exposure is related to the amount of use of pthtalate containing products, therefore adult sex toys like dildos and vibrators containing pthtalates are thought to be safe. However, many researches and medical practitioners are encouraging adults to consider replacing old plastic sex toys with new, pthalate-free toys.

There are many pthtalate-free dildos and vibrators available, in many different styles. The Evolved Symphony line of vibrators offers pthtalate-free vibrators with options like a rabbit style, or water-proof version. The Tantus Silicone Acute Dildo is pthalate-free and perfect for G-spot stimulation. It can also be used with a harness! The Vibratex line also offers many pthtalate-free items, like the amazing “Rock Your World”.

While it is a personal decision to toss your old favorites and replace them with safer, newer versions, research shows that minimizing your pthtalate exposure is a wise choice. Plus, with so many pthtalate-free options available, it’s a great excuse to treat yourself to a few new, fun toys!

It’s pretty well known that smoking cigarettes is bad for your health. As if heart disease and lung disease weren’t reason enough to give cigarettes up forever, here’s a reason that should really make you come around—quitting smoking will drastically improve your sex life.

Studies have linked male impotence to smoking, which is due largely to the fact that smoking restricts blood flow. Quitting smoking allows your blood to flow more freely through your body, your heart to pump more fully, and your lungs to fill the blood with more oxygen. Increased lung capacity means you won’t get worn out as quickly, and increased blood flow means your orgasms will reach new heights.

As if having great sex isn’t enough incentive to quit, consider that with the money you will save on cigarettes, you can buy yourself some exciting new sex toys. The Vibratex “Rock Your World” vibrator combines a big penetrator with a huge amount of power to pleasure you for hours. For men, use the money you would have spent on cigarettes to treat yourself to a CyberSkin Vibrating Perfect Ass- the perfect vibrating toy for any man. Just think, with a healthier heart and lungs, you’ll be able to enjoy your new toys longer and pound them harder!

We’ve all been there. Things are hot and heavy, and suddenly one of you makes a stupid joke, or does something embarrassing and everything comes to a screeching halt. Here are a few things to avoid.

Sometimes watching television is part of the action. Either you’ve selected a porno to watch together, or you are playing a game of “Oh my, you’re pleasuring me while I go about my regularly scheduled activity.” If the TV is on, be careful not to give it too much attention. Your partner most likely still wants you to look at him and send him cues about what he’s doing. Glancing at the TV is fine– getting into a chick-flick movie and forgetting that you’re in midst of receiving cunnilingus is bad.
If your partner accidentally makes an embarrassing body noise, like passing gas or burping, try not to point it out. He’ll probably excuse himself, but whether he does or not, forget it happened and keep going at it. Everybody farts and burps, don’t turn an embarrassing nothing into an enormous embarrassment.

Only compliment your partner’s body. Sex is no time to criticize or compare.

If you are in a domestic relationship, sex is probably not the right time to thank your woman for cooking dinner. You’re likely to piss her off by making her feel like you think that she’s just here to serve you. Doing that with your dick in her mouth can be more dangerous than wrestling alligators.
Don’t pick your nose or scratch your ass. Save those for when you’re alone, or supposed to be working.

It is unwise to use this time to bring up other conversation topics, particularly chore, child, or work related.

And perhaps the most important taboo to avoid during sex is asking “Are you almost done yet?”

A guy is interviewing for a job with a Federal agency. The interviewer asks the man if he has any allergies. The man answers “Yes, I’m allergic to caffeine.”

“Well, that’s a strike against you, but moving on… Do you have any disabilities?” asks the boss.

The man answers “Yes, I got my balls blown off in ‘Nam.”

The interviewer says “Well that’s great! You’re a Purple Heart Veteran! I can say right now, you have the job. Show up at 10 a.m. On Monday morning. Our hours 8 a.m. To 5 p.m.”

The Veteran replies, “Shouldn’t I show up at 8, since that’s when the office opens?” and the interviewer responds, “No, this is a Federal job. We spend the first two hours standing around drinking coffee and scratching our balls.”

For many women, the orgasm is an elusive creature, rarely, if ever, experienced. While masturbation with dildos and vibrators can help, for many women penetration is not the key. If your sex partner is uncomfortable watching you with a dildo or vibrator, it can make reaching orgasm even more difficult.

Vibrating clitoral stimulation is the key many women seek to reaching orgasm and experiencing fulfilling sex lives. The Tuyo Vibromasseur offers luxury and pleasure, in an artistic form. It is a sphere, designed to be attractive and non-threatening, making it a great clitoral stimulator for couples who are new to sex toy play. An added bonus of the Tuyo Vibromasseur is that its shape allows it to double as a massager for any body part, on anybody. Relaxation plays a big role in reaching orgasm, and you can start this artistic sphere at your shoulders and work its way down.

It’s not that we planned this. It’s not even something we had ever envisioned (and believe me, I can think up a lot of sick shit), it was more Anna’s need for even more creative sex that had us here: me standing at the edge of my bed, Anna underneath me, on her back, naked, me stuffing her mouth with my cock-for all intents and purposes gagging her upside down-while she fed a long G-spot vibrator wand up her pussy, pinned her huge tits together between her elbows and literally gasped for breath as she came again.

“Hrmm, Parl, hrmm,” she said as I stood over her looking down her magnificent big white body, trying like all hell not to fall forward on top of her. I did manage to lean in a little and push the back of her hand, causing her to arch her back and push the vibrator inside herself even deeper.

“Hrmmm, prslll, hrmm,” she mouthed. I knew she was asking for me to come, but I knew it wasn’t in the cards that I do so right then. Not that Anna didn’t give great head, she did, but at times like these, I was more entranced with what her big body was doing, the way she sizzored her short legs when she came, how her landing strip of hair looked when she rolled her pussy up into her hand, the way those great big cans shook between her arms, that I couldn’t really concentrate fully on the sensations surrounding my cock.

I reached out and hovered my hand over her huge right breast. Anna bounced on the bed at the tease of me so close but not touching her flesh. The only real physical connection we had had here tonight was my cock in her mouth, albiet a strong one, but still, I knew if I were to disengage from Anna’s wonderfully welcoming mouth, she’d be left to diddle herself alone there on the bed. She knew, as did I, that this light connection was quite the turn on for us, we were executing a “look ma, no hands” sexcapade right then and though we hadn’t expected this thrilling little addition to the position we were in, it did seem to make Anna crazy enough that she was feeding that vibrator even deeper into herself.

The first two orgasms she had had were a prelude to what I was hoping Anna was building to and I was damn well determined to stay in her mouth until she finally got the toy up into herself enough to tickle her G-spot and let go with full abandon. Yes, I would pretend that I was going to touch her tits, I’d give her a cursorary push on the back of her hand with my own, but really beyond her locked on my cock the way she was, I knew that Anna and I were in a ‘hands off’ game until she popped me from her mouth herself and lay there satiated.

As always, I wanted Anna completely exhausted from our sex. It was really the only way I could assure myself that she wouldn’t leave me. I had to keep this girl satisfied in the bedroom or I knew, sooner more than later, she’d grow bored and her ache for more creative pastures would lead her astray. I had no doubt she and I liked each other, in fact in the six months Anna and I had been together I was coming to think maybe we even loved one another, but a girl like Anna had to have her libido constantly challenged or she’d eventually take a powder. Someday I might tire of this challenge or we might actually fall in love and her physical ache might be superseded by an emotional one, but for now I knew I had to find her every little wrinkle and exploit it as best I could.

Therefore, no hands tonight.

I reached out both my hands, spread my fingers and hovered them over those bouncing big tits under me. Anna’s eyes went wider, she sucked my cock even harder (God, she really was a pro!) and involuntarily she pushed the vibrator even deeper into her pussy. I smiled to myself as she rolled her hips, shook then bucked. I could hear her lightly gagging so I backed up ever so slightly and just tapped her little hard nipples with the palm of each hand, technically brushing her but not touching really. This brought a shock wave across that big white body below me and Anna began to fuck the wand in her pussy and began to spill. At the amazing site of her completed G-spot massage I nearly came myself.

But I still never touched her.

This is not some fantasy blog, or some concept of anyone’s imagination, this is my life. I got “discovered” when I was very young, too young maybe, I don’t know. I was snatched up into the limelight and exposed to an unreal world of pretty people and an opulent norm that cannot, and should not be maintained. I am a writer, actress and model recognized at first for my talent (I hope) and then my appearance, but I don’t know that I was ready for any of it. I am taking a hiatus from the biz for a bit in MX, and can’t write any of this on my public blog, or MySpace, because well it will make some trade paper or get back to my agent, or a studio and then I’m fucked.

What’s the deal? Well, I have secrets like anyone and sometimes I guess I just need a confessor. So forgive me father, but I’m into kinky sex and for what I do, it’s got to be a secret. I like sex toys, I mean the best sex toys, I mean sex toys you would buy at a hardware store. I know a hundred and one ways to use a vibrator. I love anonymous sex, and group sex. Gang bangs THRILL me, though I haven’t been able to safely throw one as yet, and if given the chance I would love to spend a weekend with countless sexy women in lesbian orgy.

There now I feel better, feels good just to have typed it out, even if no-one ever reads it.

You know your man has worked hard all day. You know you’d like get to some action, but by the time the kids are in bed you’re both too pooped to party. Surprise your man at the door for a quickie, and you’ll ensure a pleasant evening for everybody.

Get dinner started and cook something that can be left in the oven on low while you walk away for a while. Roasts are good for that. Once dinner is in, spend a few minutes tidying up the house and yourself. Brush your teeth, comb your hair, touch up your makeup. Next, send the kids off to the neighbors. You’ll have to time this just right – about five minutes before your partner is expected home from work, take the kiddies on over. You’ll probably only be able to get about twenty minutes out of your neighbor, so timing is everything.

Now, greet him at the door with his favorite beverage in hand and a come-hither look on your face!
(Note: you may want to mention that the kids will be home in a few minutes– otherwise you’ll have to pretend to be interested in his day before you get any play.)