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When people are first time swingers or still a little new to the scene, there are details of the culture that are easy to miss. Here is a very short list of things that will be helpful to your understanding swinging etiquette as you begin your amorous adventures.

1) Ask before you touch.
You may be at an orgy, but it is not a free-for-all! Be sure that you have explicit permission from both the person you want to get it on with and that person’s primary partner(s) before proceeding.

2) Safety.
This should go without saying. Don’t dive into intercourse without a condom, period. Parties vary in terms of the level of safer sex required. If oral sex without a barrier is ok and you are comfortable with that, then proceed. If it is prohibited by the hosts, follow the house rules.

3) Mouthwash!
Here’s one people easily forget. You may have agreed to eat somebody’s pussy. The next person you want to kiss may not have agreed to that. It’s polite of you to wash your hands, use mouthwash, etc. before moving onto the next hot scene.

4) Pay attention to the vibe.
Is this a party like a hardcore porn flick where intense language fantasy and kinky props are all part of the game? Is this a New Age Tantric massage party where people are seeking transcendence through erotic experience? It may not be so nice to call someone a fuckin’ cum slut baby doll whore while she’s hoping to send her orgasm to the universe with a healing intention. Pay attention.

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