Enjoy Sex Toys

Ever since I was a little girl, I was a fan of cute things. If it was pink, fuzzy, or covered with hearts, flowers, of magic princesses, I definitely was bugging my mom for whatever it was. Could it me that I have just transferred my girly tastes from childhood to the world of adult toys that I lose so much now? LOL, I feel kind of funny even equating the two ideas!

Ever since I first heard of a rabbit vibrator I knew it would be for me. I like the ones that have beads that churn around in the middle, but what turns me on the most is how the rabbit ears tickle and flick.
Clitoral stimulation is really what does it for me. I have two rabbits now- one is a little bit big, but one is slimmer since I don’t really need anything too giant inside me most of the time. They are so cute! I think that’s what appeals to me most. Even if it’s for sex now that I’m all grown up, I still buy the cute little bunny rabbit thing.

Which is better depends totally on the person. Some women can only get off if their clit is stimulated; others love the feeling of being penetrated. If your girlfriend usually comes during oral sex and not vaginal sex I’d say get her a pair of vibrating panties or something like a clit pump or the soft touch clit licker. If she seems to come with both a rabbit vibrator is probably right up her ally. The biggest benefit of the rabbit style vibrator is that you get the clit stimulation at the same time you get penetration. A standard vibrator is good just for penetration and stimulating the g-spot.

I have a rabbit style vibrator and swear by it, mine is the Gyrating Beaded Dolphin. It has every option you can think of and then some. It has dual speeds for the shaft and the clit stimulator, various different pulsating rhythms, and to top it all off the control pad glows in the dark so there’s none of that fumbling around right when you need to change the speed or something.

OMG, I saw something totally brutal last night. I love the sex parties my friends throw- we are totally sex positive and aren’t shy with each other in the least. I think it bonds our community together to make love together. But this one was different.

It was never like this before, but there were so many people into ass play there. At least four guys had their girlfriends or a new friend strap on a dildo and do them. Watching a woman strap on a nice dong and do a guy in the ass is hot enough, but a few of these people were pros! One guy insisted on a woman using a seriously giant dildo on him. It was pretty scary to think about even taking it vaginally. It was the first time she ever did use a strap-on on a guy, so she was nervous already, before the issue of the giant thing between her legs! Anyway, it looks like they both enjoyed it.
There was also a serious Wonder Woman who also loved it that way. I was busy getting fucked too, but we took a little break & we got an eyeful of what was happening. She kept getting bigger & bigger things up there – a couple of different dildos, a big anal vibrator, her boyfriend’s cock, and finally a fist
more than once!! This was extreme, people.

Well, you know what they say, different strokes for different folks. Seriously though, I only get off with clitoral stimulation, not penetration, so smaller sex toys are much better for me. I’ve certainly made do with large sized vibrators but after much trial and error I’ve really found that I have better control over a small bullet style vibrator or clit vibrator. As they’ve also been known to say: it’s not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean. Ha ha.

I think the important thing to keep in mind when it comes to buying any sex toy is to know your own body. You can spend a lot of time and money trying out sex toys that aren’t right for you if you don’t know what you personally like. Comparing your tastes, and toys, to anyone else’s is pointless. There is no ‘right’ size or kind of sex toy, only what is right for you personally. There is really no such thing as too big, or too small, just what’s right for you.

Sorry to hear that. I’ve always felt that if you aren’t having your sexual needs met then the relationship is on its way out. I don’t think you have anything to beat yourself up over, you’ve gone above and beyond what you need to do.

When my hubby and I hit a slump we started exploring sex toys. It sounds like you’re open to that idea but he might not be. I was a little leery at first but then my hubby bought a sex toy game all about discovering your lover. It really helped keep me from being self conscious and we both opened up a lot about what turns us on when it comes to our partner and what toys might work best for us. It was a good first step.

If you love your hubby and he just won’t change there’s no reason why you shouldn’t get some sex toys for your own pleasure. There are plenty of dildos, vibrators, clit suckers, anal beads, ect that you can use to keep yourself satisfied. And who knows? Maybe once the pressure is off your husband or once he sees how well you can take care of yourself without him it’ll jump start his engines.

One of my best sex toys is my remote three speed sapphire thong. It is a patent leather thong, that makes me feel very kinky and naughty no matter what clothes I’m wearing on the outside, and it has a built in bullet style vibrator with three speeds. My boyfriend has a problem where when he drinks he can’t function sexually later on, so this solves the problem nicely for both of us. I always wear this sex toy to parties and hand him the remote. We both love how naughty it is, and no one is any wiser. The panties really are quiet enough that we use them I front of others and they haven’t caught us yet.

People usually blame my blush on the drink I’m holding in my hand, and my boyfriend doesn’t have to feel bad that he’s disappointing me later on, since he’s been giving me orgasms all night. More than once we’ve ended up having to meet for a little rendezvous mid-party because we both can’t keep our hands off of each other.

The answer to that question is toys, toys, and more toys. And definitely look for sex toys that you can both use on each other. Girls seem to always go for sex toys that a guy can use on them (which is sexy! Not totally complaining) but we guys like to have you take care of us a little, too.

You can probably figure out how a dildo works on both you and your partner, but for some guys getting penetrated can be a touchy subject. People don’t usually think of a vibrator as a male sex toy but it definitely can be used on you both. If he’s open to penetration they can be used anally to stimulate the prostrate but there are plenty of non-penetration ways you can use a vibrator on him. My girlfriend holds hers against my dick while she jerks me off and it feels incredible. She runs it along my nipples as well.

Just be clean when sharing toys. Pulling a fresh condom over your dildo or vibrator when you switch it between you will keep everyone clean and happy.

For decades, the manufacturing of adult sex toys was a taboo subject. That meant that not much research was put into form or materials. Thanks to Dr. Ruth and Sue Johanson, sexuality is now recognized as an important part of overall health and well-being, and sex toy manufacturers are tapping into new research, making new products that are not only functional, but are also artistic.

The Nea and Lelo lines of clitoral vibrators are designed to be ergonomic, comfortable, effective, and pretty. These stimulators are also feminine and soft—helping to create a deeper sense of well-being to the user.

If you prefer penetration, the Onye Vibromasseur is a vibrator that is designed for pure pleasure and penetration. These vibrators are smooth, and are designed with an eye on function and form. Artistic sex toys add a higher level of sensuality to sex play, and the Onye line completes this by even having attractive packaging.

For many women, the orgasm is an elusive creature, rarely, if ever, experienced. While masturbation with dildos and vibrators can help, for many women penetration is not the key. If your sex partner is uncomfortable watching you with a dildo or vibrator, it can make reaching orgasm even more difficult.

Vibrating clitoral stimulation is the key many women seek to reaching orgasm and experiencing fulfilling sex lives. The Tuyo Vibromasseur offers luxury and pleasure, in an artistic form. It is a sphere, designed to be attractive and non-threatening, making it a great clitoral stimulator for couples who are new to sex toy play. An added bonus of the Tuyo Vibromasseur is that its shape allows it to double as a massager for any body part, on anybody. Relaxation plays a big role in reaching orgasm, and you can start this artistic sphere at your shoulders and work its way down.

It’s pretty well known that smoking cigarettes is bad for your health. As if heart disease and lung disease weren’t reason enough to give cigarettes up forever, here’s a reason that should really make you come around—quitting smoking will drastically improve your sex life.

Studies have linked male impotence to smoking, which is due largely to the fact that smoking restricts blood flow. Quitting smoking allows your blood to flow more freely through your body, your heart to pump more fully, and your lungs to fill the blood with more oxygen. Increased lung capacity means you won’t get worn out as quickly, and increased blood flow means your orgasms will reach new heights.

As if having great sex isn’t enough incentive to quit, consider that with the money you will save on cigarettes, you can buy yourself some exciting new sex toys. The Vibratex “Rock Your World” vibrator combines a big penetrator with a huge amount of power to pleasure you for hours. For men, use the money you would have spent on cigarettes to treat yourself to a CyberSkin Vibrating Perfect Ass- the perfect vibrating toy for any man. Just think, with a healthier heart and lungs, you’ll be able to enjoy your new toys longer and pound them harder!