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Well, you know what they say, different strokes for different folks. Seriously though, I only get off with clitoral stimulation, not penetration, so smaller sex toys are much better for me. I’ve certainly made do with large sized vibrators but after much trial and error I’ve really found that I have better control over a small bullet style vibrator or clit vibrator. As they’ve also been known to say: it’s not the size of the boat but the motion in the ocean. Ha ha.

I think the important thing to keep in mind when it comes to buying any sex toy is to know your own body. You can spend a lot of time and money trying out sex toys that aren’t right for you if you don’t know what you personally like. Comparing your tastes, and toys, to anyone else’s is pointless. There is no ‘right’ size or kind of sex toy, only what is right for you personally. There is really no such thing as too big, or too small, just what’s right for you.

If so, Im sorry to hear that. I’ve always felt that if you aren’t having your sexual needs met then the relationship is on its way out. I don’t think you have anything to beat yourself up over, you’ve gone above and beyond what you need to do.

When my hubby and I hit a slump we started exploring sex toys. It sounds like you’re open to that idea but he might not be. I was a little leery at first but then my hubby bought a sex toy game all about discovering your lover. It really helped keep me from being self conscious and we both opened up a lot about what turns us on when it comes to our partner and what toys might work best for us. It was a good first step.

If you love your hubby and he just won’t change there’s no reason why you shouldn’t get some sex toys for your own pleasure. There are plenty of dildos, vibrators, clit suckers, anal beads, ect that you can use to keep yourself satisfied. And who knows? Maybe once the pressure is off your husband or once he sees how well you can take care of yourself without him it’ll jump start his engines.

One of my best sex toys is my remote three speed sapphire thong. It is a patent leather thong, that makes me feel very kinky and naughty no matter what clothes I’m wearing on the outside, and it has a built in bullet style vibrator with three speeds. My boyfriend has a problem where when he drinks he can’t function sexually later on, so this solves the problem nicely for both of us. I always wear this sex toy to parties and hand him the remote. We both love how naughty it is, and no one is any wiser. The panties really are quiet enough that we use them I front of others and they haven’t caught us yet.
People usually blame my blush on the drink I’m holding in my hand, and my boyfriend doesn’t have to feel bad that he’s disappointing me later on, since he’s been giving me orgasms all night. More than once we’ve ended up having to meet for a little rendezvous mid-party because we both can’t keep our hands off of each other.

It’s really a matter of personal taste. I usually buy non-vibrating ones because I feel like they last longer, and because you can easily add a small bullet style vibrator to them or put a vibrating cock ring on and low and behold, your non-vibrating pocket pussy becomes a vibrating one.

What I will say about pocket pussies in general, whether they vibrate or not, is that I have definitely found it is worth it to invest in a good one. You really want something that is going to feel as realistic as possible so look for something made from cyberskin. And definitely use a ton of lube. My first time in I was a little stingy with the lube and I ended up tearing the opening a little. It was still useable but it lost that tight feeling I loved. Since I started using a lot more lube I’ve never had a torn one since.

I also try to look for ones that have an opening on both ends because it makes it a lot easier to clean them up afterwards. And you definitely want to keep them clean. Your toys are going to last a lot longer if you keep them as pristine as possible.

If you and your wife are just getting into anal sex I really recommend using a few toys first. It helps stretch things out a little down there and helps you both learn what her limits are before anyone gets hurt. I started off with anal beads because they are graduated, making it very easy to ease into the larger sizes. They make a lot of great anal dildos and anal vibrators for beginners as well.

And, of course, lube, lube, lube, lube. You can never use too much. You can never reapply too often. If you are using dildos and vibrators you have to make sure you use a lubricant that works with whatever material your toy is made out of. If you are using a cyberskin dildo you can’t use a silicone based lube, for example. Water-based lubes are pretty safe for any toy, but they can dry out so you really need to use a lot, often. Boy Butter makes an anal lube that is water based but lasts a lot longer then usual water based lubes. It’s a little bit of a creamier formula.

The answer to that question is toys, toys, and more toys. And definitely look for sex toys that you can both use on each other. Girls seem to always go for sex toys that a guy can use on them (which is sexy! Not totally complaining) but we guys like to have you take care of us a little, too.

You can probably figure out how a dildo works on both you and your partner, but for some guys getting penetrated can be a touchy subject. People don’t usually think of a vibrator as a male sex toy but it definitely can be used on you both. If he’s open to penetration they can be used anally to stimulate the prostrate but there are plenty of non-penetration ways you can use a vibrator on him. My girlfriend holds hers against my dick while she jerks me off and it feels incredible. She runs it along my nipples as well.

Just be clean when sharing toys. Pulling a fresh condom over your dildo or vibrator when you switch it between you will keep everyone clean and happy.

Which is better depends totally on the person. Some women can only get off if their clit is stimulated; others love the feeling of being penetrated. If your girlfriend usually comes during oral sex and not vaginal sex I’d say get her a pair of vibrating panties or something like a clit pump or the soft touch clit licker. If she seems to come with both a rabbit vibrator is probably right up her ally. The biggest benefit of the rabbit style vibrator is that you get the clit stimulation at the same time you get penetration. A standard vibrator is good just for penetration and stimulating the g-spot.

I have a rabbit style vibrator and swear by it, mine is the Gyrating Beaded Dolphin. It has every option you can think of and then some. It has dual speeds for the shaft and the clit stimulator, various different pulsating rhythms, and to top it all off the control pad glows in the dark so there’s none of that fumbling around right when you need to change the speed or something.

For decades, the manufacturing of adult sex toys was a taboo subject. That meant that not much research was put into form or materials. Thanks to Dr. Ruth and Sue Johanson, sexuality is now recognized as an important part of overall health and well-being, and sex toy manufacturers are tapping into new research, making new products that are not only functional, but are also artistic.
The Nea and Lelo lines of clitoral vibrators are designed to be ergonomic, comfortable, effective, and pretty. These stimulators are also feminine and soft—helping to create a deeper sense of well-being to the user.

If you prefer penetration, the Onye Vibromasseur is a vibrator that is designed for pure pleasure and penetration. These vibrators are smooth, and are designed with an eye on function and form. Artistic sex toys add a higher level of sensuality to sex play, and the Onye line completes this by even having attractive packaging.

There has been a lot of media coverage about phthalates in children’s toys, water bottles, plastic cutlery, and other items made of plastic. Unfortunately, few media outlets have told us whether or not to be worried about pthtalates in adult sex toys.

In order to decide for yourself, it is first important to understand what phthalates are. Phthalates are chemicals used to soften hard plastics so that they may be bent into shape during manufacturing. Some manufacturers use pthtalates to turn hard plastics into soft, pliable products, like dildos or baby teethers. The problem with pthtalates is that they have recently been found to leach chemicals that act like female hormones when they are absorbed by the body.

So far, the use of pthtalates has been restricted for use in children’s toys in the European Union for nearly a decade. The state of California has been a leader in regulating pthtalates in children’s items in the United States. But children’s items have remained the main focus. Pthtalate exposure is related to the amount of use of pthtalate containing products, therefore adult sex toys like dildos and vibrators containing pthtalates are thought to be safe. However, many researches and medical practitioners are encouraging adults to consider replacing old plastic sex toys with new, pthalate-free toys.

There are many pthtalate-free dildos and vibrators available, in many different styles. The Evolved Symphony line of vibrators offers pthtalate-free vibrators with options like a rabbit style, or water-proof version. The Tantus Silicone Acute Dildo is pthalate-free and perfect for G-spot stimulation. It can also be used with a harness! The Vibratex line also offers many pthtalate-free items, like the amazing “Rock Your World”.

While it is a personal decision to toss your old favorites and replace them with safer, newer versions, research shows that minimizing your pthtalate exposure is a wise choice. Plus, with so many pthtalate-free options available, it’s a great excuse to treat yourself to a few new, fun toys!

It’s pretty well known that smoking cigarettes is bad for your health. As if heart disease and lung disease weren’t reason enough to give cigarettes up forever, here’s a reason that should really make you come around—quitting smoking will drastically improve your sex life.

Studies have linked male impotence to smoking, which is due largely to the fact that smoking restricts blood flow. Quitting smoking allows your blood to flow more freely through your body, your heart to pump more fully, and your lungs to fill the blood with more oxygen. Increased lung capacity means you won’t get worn out as quickly, and increased blood flow means your orgasms will reach new heights.

As if having great sex isn’t enough incentive to quit, consider that with the money you will save on cigarettes, you can buy yourself some exciting new sex toys. The Vibratex “Rock Your World” vibrator combines a big penetrator with a huge amount of power to pleasure you for hours. For men, use the money you would have spent on cigarettes to treat yourself to a CyberSkin Vibrating Perfect Ass- the perfect vibrating toy for any man. Just think, with a healthier heart and lungs, you’ll be able to enjoy your new toys longer and pound them harder!